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ACTIVATED โ The Antares Society
The Antares Society โ Six Weeks
ACTIVATED
A private coaching cohort for men who are done second-guessing themselves โ and ready to stop repeating the same pattern.
You don't have a relationship problem.
You have a self-trust problem.
You saw the red flags. You noted the feeling in your chest when something was off. You knew โ and then you explained it away, stayed longer than you should have, gave more than the situation asked for, and came out the other side wondering how you ended up here again.
This isn't about the wrong women or the wrong apps or something broken in modern dating. The pattern follows you because it lives in you. Specifically: in the gap between what you instinctively know and what you let yourself act on.
That gap is what we close.
You don't need to have a label for it. But you'll recognize yourself in at least a few of these.
- You keep meeting different people and ending up in the same dynamic.
- You give a lot โ and quietly resent that it doesn't seem to be enough.
- You're either over-invested and anxious, or checked out and emotionally unavailable. Sometimes both, with different people.
- Conflict either unravels you or you avoid it entirely. Neither one feels like a choice.
- You're not unhappy exactly โ but there's a version of yourself, and a version of your relationships, that you know you're not living yet.
If you've been waiting for a place to do the actual work โ without performance, posturing, or a script for how to be a man โ this is it.
Most men in this space are sold either a tougher shell or a softer heart. ACTIVATED is neither.
We start with your history โ the relationships, the moments of collapse, the places you override your own instinct โ and we map the pattern with precision. Not to analyze you into paralysis, but to make visible what's been running in the background.
From there, the work is practical. We build regulation under pressure, so your nervous system stops making decisions before your mind can. We sharpen discernment, so "maybe I'm overthinking" stops being an excuse to ignore what you already know. We work through conflict, not around it โ and we do all of it inside a cohort of men who are doing the same.
You're not becoming someone new.
You're becoming who you were before you learned to override yourself.
Each session builds on the last. By the end, you're not finishing a course โ you're leaving with a framework you'll actually use.
The Pattern
We map your relational history: where you override instinct, where you collapse, where you over-explain, where you give yourself away. Clarity replaces the confusion of wondering why you keep ending up in the same place.
Regulation
You don't rise to your ideals โ you fall to your regulation. We build awareness of how you respond under pressure, and the capacity to stay steady without shutting down or lashing out.
Boundaries
Where you say yes but mean no. Where you stay too long. Where you over-explain when a single sentence would do. We stop the self-abandonment โ not through willpower, but through understanding what drives it.
Discernment
This is where you learn to trust your read on people again. The signals you've been dismissing. The patterns you've been rationalizing. "Maybe I'm overthinking" stops being a sentence you say.
Conflict
You don't need to dominate, withdraw, or perform. You need to know when to engage and when to walk away โ and to make that choice from steadiness, not reaction. That's what this week builds.
Integration
You leave with a clear internal compass, a framework for future decisions, and a higher standard for what you'll accept in relationships. And men inside this network you can actually call.
Everything you need. Nothing you don't.
- Six live weekly coaching sessions with Jason Smith
- Direct access throughout the program
- Small cohort โ men doing the same work, no posturing
- The Source Protocol, included
- Ongoing access to the Antares network after the cohort closes
This is disciplined relational work. Not therapy. Not hype. Not a weekend seminar that feels good and changes nothing.
You will not
be fixed.
You will be
activated.
After six weeks, you'll recognize your patterns in real time, move with more clarity, and trust your own judgment again. That changes everything downstream.
